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In Deceit, Desire and the Novel (1961) René Girard argued that we rarely want things by ourselves. We borrow our wants from someone else, and rivals copy each other until the thing they’re fighting over stops mattering.
In Deceit, Desire and the Novel (1961) René Girard argued that we rarely want things by ourselves. We borrow our wants from someone else, and rivals copy each other until the thing they’re fighting over stops mattering.
Give a toy to Pip. Then watch Kit.
We want what the people we admire or envy already want. The closer the rival, the fiercer the wanting, and the sooner we forget what it was for.
Ask yourself. Who taught you to want the thing you’re chasing?
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